Sex In Marriage 
Part 1—The Story

 

What is  “The Story” Women tell Men about Sex?

  • Why do women cut off sex with their husbands?

  • What’s the impact of emotional manipulation in marriages?

  • Why do affairs happen in unhappy marriages?

 

Here’s the timeline:
The Illusion of Marital Sex       (00:00:00)

Speaker questions the trust and respect in marital sex.

Women use sex as a tool to fulfill their desires.

The Reasons Behind Withholding Sex    (00:00:42)

Women marry for care and expect husbands to make them happy.

Withholding sex is a punishment for not meeting expectations.

The Cruelty of Emotional Manipulation      (00:02:13)

Women’s behaviors emasculate men and cause emotional harm.

Trust, respect, and connection are destroyed by these actions.

The Pursuit of Happiness Outside Marriage       (00:02:56)

Women cheat due to feeling let down and seeking happiness elsewhere.

The emotional connection in affairs is based on a fantasy, not reality.

The Lack of Commitment in Marriage      (00:05:07)

Women’s vows lack genuine commitment and understanding.

Lack of self-awareness leads to unhealthy choices and affairs.

The Solution       (00:05:43)

Women must learn to be happy with themselves to improve their marriages.

Speaker offers courses to help women and men navigate their relationships.

 

Hitler once said something to the effect that: If you tell a big huge lie, over and over, people will eventually begin to believe it. We have a modern day word for that. It’s called “Gaslighting.”

 

Gaslighting | ˈɡasˌlīdiNG | noun

  • The practice of psychologically manipulating someone into questioning their own sanity, memory, or powers of reasoning
  •  He said he was the victim of gaslighting 
  • Gaslighting is an insidious technique of deception and psychological manipulation. origin 1960s: see gaslight (verb). (Source: Apple Dictionary)

 

Etymology

Charles Boyer, Ingrid Bergman, and Joseph Cotten

in the 1944 American film version of  

Gaslight

 

The term originates in the 1938 British play Gas Light by Patrick Hamilton. The play was adapted into a 1940 film in the UK, Gaslight, which was remade as in the US as the 1944 film Gaslight.[6][7][8] Set among London’s elite during the Victorian era, Gas Light and its adaptations portray a seemingly genteel husband using lies and manipulation to isolate his heiress wife and persuade her that she is mentally ill so that he can steal from her.[9]

Source: Wikipedia.com

 

 

 

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