5 Shocking Sex Myths

About Wives: Men need to Know

 

This Message: Peels back the lies, pushed upon Good Men.

The Truth is more Shocking than Fiction!

Hopefully, this is not happening to you, but statistically–chances are good, you are being played. Therefore, it is important to identify the problem, before you can seek a solution. Know this:  If you are a Good Man, Chances are good: You are not the Problem.

Therefore it might be time to call out the false behaviors (anti-marriage, and anti-biblical beliefs, schemes, lies, and behaviors that result), and seek godly counsel in how to overcome them.

 

 

Presentation: 5 Shocking Myths Good Men Need to Know About Sex and Their Wives

Myth #1:

“Your wife had sex with you because she enjoyed it and loved you.”

(00:44–02:10)

• Claimed Reality: Sex was used as a tool to secure marriage, not as an expression of love or desire.

• Post-marriage withdrawal: Once married (and with kids), women no longer feel the need to continue sexual engagement.

• Common Excuses: “I’m tired,” “I have a headache,” “It’s my hormones,” or unresolved trauma.

• Core Argument: Women misrepresent themselves early in the relationship
  and lack the integrity to follow through later.

Myth #2:

“You are the problem, and you can fix it to make her want sex again.”

(02:10–03:45)

• Claimed Reality: The husband isn’t to blame—she was never truly interested in the first place.

• Manipulative narratives: Culture and online advice (e.g., “game,” “polarity”) convince men they must change themselves.

• False hope: Techniques feel unnatural for good men and often backfire, leading to confusion and emotional defeat.

Myth #3:

“Sex should be spontaneous and passionate.”

(03:45–05:12)

• Claimed Reality: Women allegedly dislike spontaneity due to a strong need for control.

• Anxiety and avoidance: Surprise intimacy creates anxiety, making sex feel like an ambush.

• Excuses masked as ideals: Calls for spontaneity or passion are said to be deflections to avoid intimacy.

• Lack of genuine passion: Women are portrayed as not being passionate about sex in general.

Myth #4:

“Your wife is like an oven and needs to be warmed up — and that’s your job.”

(06:03–07:27)

• Claimed Reality: This is a manipulation to make men believe that romance and the right mood will lead to sex.

• Moving goalposts: No matter how much effort a man puts in, he’s always “doing it wrong.”

• The “con”: Women maintain the illusion that they’re interested in sex if only men did it right — but they never intended to follow through.

Myth #5:

“Your wife knows what she wants and likes in bed.”

(07:27–08:56)

• Claimed Reality: Most women haven’t explored their bodies or learned their sexual preferences.

• Performative intimacy: Women often act out what they think a man wants, rather than seeking or expressing real desire.

• Another deflection: This lack of self-knowledge enables continued rejection with statements like, “If you did it the way I like, I’d be interested.”

Closing (08:56–09:28)

• For women: A “Happiness Program” is offered to help women work through their internal issues.

• For men: A “Marriage Rescue Course” aims to help good men rebuild confidence and navigate their relationships in a healthy way.